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Recover. Regain. Relive.

“Sometimes, just the act of venting is helpful. Counseling provides a safe haven for precisely that kind of free-ranging release: You can say things in the therapist's office, with the therapist present, that would be incendiary or hurtful in your living room.”

-- Laura Wasser.


At  * , it is your sense of ‘hope’ that makes it a special place. It represents a change from your everyday interactions and conversations. A place where you can be with someone without judgment, to find empathy and compassion, to accept your truth unconditionally, to share without inhibition or fear. Finally a place where whatever you share, is confidential.

This is what makes , a sacred place and space to have meaningful relationships with you.

offers counselling services for:

  • Counselling for adults.
  • Counselling for couples.
  • Counselling for children and adolescents.
  • Counselling for families.

 * in Sanskrit, it means creation and with Buddhists it means ‘Transformation’.

| +91 76762 52264

Neermana2020@gmail.com

About Neermana_Abhishek_Pujara

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Uma Iyer (founder Neermana)

Having enjoyed a 15-year career with some of the leading IT companies like Hewlett Packard, Infosys, Target and Accenture performing a plethora of roles and responsibilities in the HR domain, interacting with people and dealing with myriad situations, I developed, honed and fostered skills and traits like empathy, resilience, listening skills, and perseverance. Skills that I envisioned would be an asset to our society at large through the provision of counselling services for adults and children alike. After leaving the corporate carousel. I founded ‘Neɘrmana’, a counselling practice that offers counselling and psychotherapy for adults, couples, and families and play therapy for children, and adolescents. My mission is to provide a platform and facilitate a voluntary change in thought and behaviour that will bring about personal growth and well-being for my clients.

I have a master's degree in Counselling and Family therapy and a Postgraduate Certificate in therapeutic play skills. I am also trained and certified in transactional analysis, couples counselling, REBT, NLP, gestalt, addictions informed, anger management, and shame informed treatment. I use a holistic and integrative approach that combines various modalities and techniques to suit the needs and goals of each client. I am passionate about helping people overcome their challenges, improve their relationships, and achieve psychological wellness.

EDUCATION, CREDENTIALS AND CERTIFICATIONS:
Mumbai University : Bachelor’s in Home Science
Bangalore University : Bachelor’s in Arts (Psychology)
Annamalai University : Bachelor’s in Education
AIMA, Delhi : Post Graduate Dip. In Quality Management
IGNOU : M.Sc. in Counselling and Family Therapy
SAATA : Trained in Transactional Analysis
Play Therapy International : Post Graduate Cert. in Therapeutic Play Skills
Anil Thomas Fellowship : Gestalt Certified Master
Anil Thomas Fellowship : Basic Practitioner in NLP
Prerana Academy : Foundation in Counselling Skills
Prerana Academy : Certificate in Couples Counselling
Muktha Foundation : Certificate in Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy
The Gottman Institute, US : Level 1 & 2 training in Gottman’s Method Couples Therapy
The Gottman Institute, US : Treating Trauma & Affairs in Couples Therapy
The Gottman Institute, US : Couples and Addiction Recovery
PESI : Narcissistic Abuse & Gaslighting Treatment
PESI : Dialectical Behavioural Therapy
PESI : Certified Shame Informed Treatment
PESI : Certified Specialist in Anger Management
PESI : Certified Addictions Informed Practitioner
PESI : Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy Level 1 & 2
Ochre & Spanda : Systemic Theory & Family Constellations – Level 1

Services Offered

About

Here in adult counseling session, I will help you to overcome problems by identifying causes of pain or stress and discovering barriers that interfere in your life. Through the counseling sessions, you will gain the insight needed to help you realize your vulnerabilities or Achilles heel and maximize your potential for growth and change.


Reasons for seeking counselling

  • Low self-worth
  • Work stress
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Relationship issues – professionally and personally
  • Substance abuse
  • Stuck in a rut
  • Grief trauma

Couples

About

Counselling for couples is for the duo to help them sort their problems in the relationship. In this, both spouses/partners take part in counseling sessions together to discuss their issues. There will also be individual sessions with the respective spouses/partners.


Reasons for seeking counselling

  • Feelings of being mis-understood
  • Body shaming
  • Emotional/physical/verbal abuse
  • Adultery
  • Depression
  • Mood swings /Menopause/Andropause
  • Stress/overworked
  • Grief trauma

Children & Adolescents

About

Child counseling is a type of therapy that focuses on young children, teens, and adolescents with one or more mental illnesses. It also provides aid to youths, who have experienced trauma, and/or who are experiencing a dysfunctional or stressful home environment. For effective therapeutic outcomes in the case of minors, I would meet with the parents first to ascertain and understand the background and cause for concern.


Reasons for seeking counselling

  • Bullied by others
  • Aggression towards others
  • Anger issues
  • Low self-worth
  • Sadness/Depression
  • Hyperactive
  • Attention deficit
  • Socially inappropriate behaviour
  • Grief/loss
  • Sucidial ideation
  • Substance Abuse
  • Gender disorientation

Families

About

Family therapy or counselling, helps in addressing issues and improving the dynamics within a family unit. Whether you're facing specific problems or seeking to enhance overall family functioning, family therapy can be a beneficial resource.


Reasons for seeking counselling

  • Communication problems
  • Conflict resolution
  • Parenting challenges
  • Adjustment to life transitions such as divorce, remarriage, birth of a child
  • Substance abuse or addiction
  • Mental health issues
  • Grief and loss
  • Estrangement or disconnection
  • Helping blended families e.g. in remarriage, therapy can assist in creating harmonious relationships among step-siblings and parents.
  • Cultural or religious differences: differences in cultural backgrounds or religious beliefs can lead to family conflicts, which therapy can help address
  • Substance Abuse
  • Gender disorientation

Therapeutic Interventions

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Psychotherapy - Counselling is a field in medical science which involves life-long learning as new techniques and methods are invented and found to treat mental health. My role as a psychotherapist-counsellor is committed to continuous professional development to keep pace with the current standards and knowledge and skills to deliver a professional service to my clients. Therefore it is an interminable journey of learning to deliver the high quality of service that meets the expectations of my clients and the requirements of this profession.


As a certified trainer, I use the following therapeutic interventions while working with my clients – Gestalt Therapy, Transactional Analysis, Creative Arts Therapy, Play Therapy and Rational Emotive Behavioural Therapy (REBT).


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What is play therapy?

The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the couple’s relationship, and integrates research-based interventions based on the Sound Relationship House Theory.

The Sound Relationship House is a foundational theory introduced and developed by Dr. John Gottman. It says that a foundationally strong relationship is like a house. It contains weight-bearing pillars and floors that help couples establish a strong link. The Sound Relationship House is built on seven levels and two pillars. The two pillars that keep the house standing are Trust and Commitment. These seven floors or levels are:

  • Build Love Maps
  • Share Fondness and Admiration
  • Turn Towards Instead of Away
  • The Positive Perspective
  • Manage Conflict
  • Make Life Dreams Come True
  • Create Shared Meaning


The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to

  • Disarm conflicting verbal communication
  • Increase intimacy, respect, and affection
  • Remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy
  • Create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.


What is play therapy?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a simple, skilful technique for studying what goes on inside a person (subjective experience) - the processes people use to build their unique, distinctive maps or models of the world.

NLP practitioners believe there are natural hierarchies of learning, communication, and change.

Purpose and spirituality:
This level from the Logical Levels theory is about the deeper-rooted question: ‘what else are we here for?’ This level can also be called spirituality, referring to the larger system we might be a part of.
Identity:
Identity is the person you perceive yourself to be and includes your responsibilities and the roles you play in life.
Beliefs and values:
How your personal Values support or hinder you.
Capabilities and skills:
These are your 'internal behaviours'. The level of innate capabilities and learned skills which you have and how effectively you use these.
Behaviours:
Behaviours are the specific actions you perform.
Environment:
Your surrounding: the people and places that you are interacting with, and responding to, when you are engaged in a particular activity. This is the lowest level of change.


NLP suggests that changing unhelpful thoughts, feelings, behaviours, and communication patterns can:

  • Help shift your worldview for the better
  • Improve your relationships
  • Make it possible to influence others
  • Help you achieve goals.
  • Boost self-awareness.
  • Improve physical and mental well-being.


What is play therapy?

Play Therapy uses a variety of play and creative arts techniques (the Play Therapy Tool-Kit to alleviate chronic, mild and moderate psychological and emotional conditions in children that are causing behavioural problems and/or are preventing children from realising their potential.

The Play Therapist works integratively using a wide range of play and creative arts techniques, mostly responding to the child's wishes.

The Play Therapist forms a short to medium term therapeutic relationship and often works systemically taking into account and perhaps dealing with the social environment of the clients (peers, siblings, family, school etc).


Uses and benefits

Although people of all ages can benefit from play therapy, it’s typically used with children between the ages of 3 and 12. Play therapy may be helpful in a variety of circumstances, such as:

  • facing medical procedures, chronic illness, or palliative care
  • developmental delay or learning disabilities
  • problem behaviours in school
  • aggressive or angry behaviour
  • family issues, like divorce, separation, or death of a close family member
  • natural disasters or traumatic events
  • domestic violence, abuse, or neglect
  • anxiety, depression, grief
  • eating and toileting disorders
  • attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)
  • autism spectrum disorder (ASD)

Some of the potential benefits of play therapy are:

  • taking more responsibility for certain behaviours
  • developing coping strategies and creative problem-solving skills
  • self-respect
  • empathy and respect for others
  • alleviation of anxiety
  • learning to fully experience and express feelings
  • stronger social skills
  • stronger family relationships

Play therapy can also encourage use of language or improve fine and gross motor skills.


What is Gestalt Therapy?

Gestalt, by definition, refers to the form or shape of something and suggests that the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. There is an emphasis on perception in this particular theory of counseling. Gestalt therapy gives attention to how we place meaning and make sense of our world and our experiences.

This form of therapy is a humanistic, holistic, person-centered form of psychotherapy that is focused on an individual's present life and challenges rather than delving into past experiences. This approach stresses the importance of understanding the context of a person’s life and taking responsibility rather than placing blame.

It can be a little intimidating to consider starting therapy, especially if you imagine yourself sitting in the therapy room talking about the past. Although revisiting the past is an important part of identifying what needs to be healed, Gestalt therapy is an approach that focuses more on the "here and now" experience of the client. Within Gestalt therapy, the client has space to safely explore their experiences without fear of judgment. In fact, the clients are encouraged to not simply talk about their emotions or experiences, but to bring them into the room so they can be processed in real-time with the therapist.

mild and moderate psychological and emotional conditions in children that are causing behavioural problems and/or are preventing children from realising their potential.


Uses and benefits

There are a variety of conditions that Gestalt therapy may be used to treat, including:

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Relationship problems
  • Low self-esteem
  • Low self-efficacy

Gestalt therapy can also be useful for helping people gain greater self-awareness and a greater ability to live in the present moment.

Other potential benefits may include:

  • Improved communication skills
  • Better tolerance for negative emotions
  • Increased emotional understanding
  • Better awareness of your needs
  • An improved sense of self-control
  • Better ability to monitor and regulate mental states
  • Improved mindfulness

What is Transactional Analysis?

Transactional analysis is a psychoanalytic theory and method of therapy wherein social transactions are analyzed to determine the ego state of the patient as a basis for understanding behaviour.

In this form of interactive therapy, the sessions are formatted to explore an individual's personality and how experience has played a pivotal role in shaping the same - specifically those stemming from childhood. This is attained through subjective questioning and by employing various charts, techniques and tools.

In the field of counselling, Transactional Analysis therapy is uniquely resourceful, for it can be utilized in a wide range of areas and incorporates key subjects from human-centered, integrative and psycho neurotic and psychodynamic therapies.

One of the exciting things about transactional analysis is the simple models and language it employs, which help you to understand why you have become who you are today and how you connect with others in your day to day life.


Uses and benefits

Predominantly Transactional Analysis can be used in any field where need is identified for understanding of persons, communication and relationships. Hence, it is specifically useful where there occur problems of conflict, confusion or where there is something missing. Many people find TA therapy appealing as it promotes an equal relationship between client and therapist, in which the client is encouraged to focus on their commitment to change. This form of therapy believes everyone has the capacity to decide what they want for their lives, and the therapy helps clients to recognise their worth and value in order to go about achieving these goals.


What is creative art therapy ?

Art, music, dance, drama, and poetry therapies are referred to as “creative arts therapies” because of their roots in the arts and theories of creativity. These therapies and others that utilize self-expression in treatment are also called “expressive therapies”

Integrative approaches involve two or more expressive therapies to foster awareness, encourage emotional growth, and enhance relationships with others. This approach distinguishes itself by combining modalities within a therapy session.

While the arts may sometimes be a form of play, encouraging individuals to express themselves through a painting, music, or dance involves an understanding of the media beyond the scope of play. In brief, the arts therapies are different from play therapy because they integrate knowledge of art with principles of psychotherapy and related fields.


Uses and benefits

Expressive arts therapy may be used as a part of the treatment strategy for a wide variety of behavioural, emotional, and mental health conditions. These include:

  • Attention-deficit hyperactivity
  • Developmental disabilities
  • Eating disorders
  • High levels of stress
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Posttraumatic stress
  • Social challenges

What is REBT therapy ?

Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) is a short-term form of psychotherapy that helps you identify self-defeating thoughts and feelings, challenge the rationality of those feelings, and replace them with healthier, more productive beliefs.

REBT focuses mostly on the present time to help you understand how unhealthy thoughts and beliefs create emotional distress which, in turn, leads to unhealthy actions and behaviours that interfere with your current life goals. Once identified and understood, negative thoughts and actions can be changed and replaced with more positive and productive behaviour, allowing you to develop more successful personal and professional relationships.


Uses and benefits

Rational emotive behaviour therapy has been used effectively in the treatment of a wide range of psychological problems, specific mental health disorders, and other conditions and issues, including (but not limited to) the following:

  • Depression
  • Suicidal thoughts
  • Low self-esteem
  • Recovery from sexual abuse
  • Panic attacks / panic disorder
  • Generalized anxiety disorder
  • Posttraumatic stress disorder
  • Social phobia (social anxiety disorder)
  • Behavioural problems in children and adolescents
  • Substance abuse and dependence
  • Grief and loss
  • Relationship issues
  • Family conflict
  • Anger issues
  • Coping with health issues (e.g. a psychiatric disorder, chronic physical
  • illness or condition, physical disability)
  • Insomnia
  • Social skills deficits
  • Performance anxiety (e.g. public speaking, taking tests)
  • Difficulties being assertive
  • Stuttering
  • Aggressive behaviour
  • Procrastination
  • Excess guilt
  • Self-sabotage
  • Managing major life transitions

Some of the benefits of REBT Therapy are:

  • You learn to take responsibility for how you feel, react, and behave in response to situations and events
  • You learn to identify and monitor any irrational thoughts and beliefs, including the impact they have on your feelings and actions
  • You can apply what you’ve learned in REBT in all areas of your life
  • You learn how to essentially be your own therapist in future situations that are challenging or distressful
  • You learn how to stop negative thoughts in their tracks so that you don’t get stuck in a downward spiral that can lead to emotional distress and unhealthy behavior
  • You learn to let go of unrealistic expectations of yourself, others, and the world, and adapt more a healthier, more realistic perspective
  • You learn how to genuinely accept yourself
  • Your relationships improve as you learn to be less reactive, not jump to conclusions or assume the worst, and develop more realistic expectations of others
  • You learn to tolerate frustration and set-backs with more grace and ease
  • You learn to stop relying on others’ perceptions, attitudes, behaviors, and opinions for validation of your worth

F.A.Q.

I would like to start seeing a therapist, what should I do?

Please message me on +91 76762 52264. (WhatsApp/SMS) or email me at neermana2020@gmail.com. Please state your reasons in brief for seeking counselling and I will revert back as soon as possible with a time and date for the appointment.

Where do therapy sessions take place?

Due to Covid'19 - the client has the option to choose between online sessions and face-face. If it is online, they will be held on zoom. If the client prefers a face to face session and visitors are permitted as per Apartment Resident Association guidelines and BBMP, I will see clients at my home and ensuring that social distancing norms and sanitisation protocols are followed.

What is your current availability for therapy sessions?

I will be available from Monday to Saturday and there are fixed slots for sessions. Please call, message or email to take an appointment.

How much is the psychotherapy session? Do you offer discounts for therapy sessions?

For any queries regarding the cost of a session contact me on +91 76762 52264

How will I know if you are the right therapist for me?

The only way to know for sure is to come in for a session. Most people have a good sense of whether I am the right professional to help them within the first two sessions.

You can also refer to the criteria for services offered on the website www.neermana.com.

How long do appointments last?

Each session is for 60 minutes. After the first appointment, you will be asked to agree to a block of 4 sessions as for any results to be felt or experienced, a minimum of 4 sessions is ideal.

Do you provide online counseling?

Yes, online counseling is also an option if it is not possible to have a face to face session. However, unless you are based out of Bangalore, it is highly recommended that a face to face session is more effective.

What is your cancellation policy?

I would require 24 hours’ notice of cancellation or you will need to pay for the appointment. An occasional exception may be made in the case of an emergency.

Who do you work with?

I provide counseling for adults, couples, children & adolescents.

What can I expect from therapy?

The idea of going to therapy can be very intimidating for many people. For some it even seems downright weird.

"Why would I go and tell my problems to a total stranger?" you might think. There are several good answers to that!
  • Your information is totally confidential and you do not have to worry about it getting spread amongst your family or friends.
  • Because I am not a part of your “real world” I do not have a personal investment in your choices, therefore you can freely express yourself without fear of backlash or judgments. I will however offer guidance based on your desired goals.
  • Because I am not a part of your “real world” you also have no emotional attachment to me which also makes it easier to be open to ideas or possibilities that I may suggest versus hearing it from your significant other, parent, or friend.
  • Therapy provides clients with an opportunity to get a less biased, more objective opinion about things, and as a therapist, I can function like a sounding board.
  • Where else in your life do you get 60 minutes of someone’s undivided attention? Where else in your life would you give yourself 45 minutes of your own undivided attention?

What happens during the first session?

The first appointment is usually the most intimidating for clients as they do not know what to expect. So here is a glimpse of how to prepare yourself.
  • I will ask you to fill out an intake form and use it as a guide throughout the session to help ask any clarifying questions about your symptoms or situation. I may also ask questions about your family of origin, your relationships, and any concerns you may have indicated on the intake. You do not need to share more than you are ready for. All information you share is confidential unless you indicate that you have intentions to hurt yourself or someone else, as we are mandated reporters.
  • The session is approximately 60 minutes long.
  • At the end of the session I will clarify with you, your goals for therapy with a verbal contract.
  • If you are in agreement with continuing therapy, you can schedule any follow-up appointments. The number of times a client is seen varies greatly on the issues and situations each person is dealing with. Sessions often start out weekly in order to make progress on the issues at hand, and then sessions typically space out as symptoms decline.
  • As you are leaving your appointment you may feel a variety of emotions, ranging from anxiety to a great sense of relief having shared your story. Whatever your reaction, please feel free to discuss your experience with your therapist to help you process any thoughts and/or feelings during that vulnerable time. I am a only a phone call or a message away.

Will what i reveal about myself be kept private?

Yes. This is a fundamental and crucial tenet of the psychotherapy code of conduct. What is discussed in therapy remains confidential.

Myths & Fears

What will the therapist think of me?

Many people fear that the therapist will judge them harshly when the therapist hears their story. Please know that I am aware of how difficult it is to come to that first appointment and tell your story. Part of my role as therapist is to be a witness to your journey, not to judge it.

I will feel embarrassed.

I cannot tell you not to feel embarrassed as people have a right to their feelings. However, I can explain that therapy can be a very vulnerable experience and that can feel uncomfortable at times. But therapy can also be a highly rewarding experience when positive changes occur.

What if I cry?

Many people feel uncomfortable about crying, but it is healthy. It is just a way for your body to release some emotional energy, much like steam from a tea kettle. I hope you feel so supported and understood in this environment that if tears come to you, it will feel natural and okay.

I should be able to fix my own problems!

Well first of all, I can assure you that I will not be fixing your problems. That is your job. You decide on your goals, and I can help you navigate toward those goals, but in the end the work is all yours. I cannot “make you” do anything, therefore, once you leave my office, it’s all you!

Furthermore, people do not think twice about asking a doctor for medical advice or a financial planner for financial advice because those are not everyone’s area of expertise. Sometimes we look to others for guidance. Therapy exists for the same reason as financial planners and medical providers.

I am here to help you on this personal journey.

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Days: Tuesday to Sunday.
Timings: Morning - 10.30 - 1.30pm  |  Evening - 4-8pm.
Medium: In-person / online (Zoom).
Language: English.

Please call/message to schedule an appointment.

 Duration : 1 Hour  

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 Contact and WhatsApp number:
+91 76762 52264

Email Id:
Neermana2020@gmail.com

Address:
Neermana - BTM Layout
SNN RAJ LAKE VIEW,
Nyasa Block, Flat # 1501
BTM 2nd Stage, N S Palya, Bangalore - 560076
Karnataka - INDIA.

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